Welcome to New Life in the Mourning website.  This website is for those who have experienced the end of a relationship, to promote healing and hope. The end of a significant relationship, whether through choice or circumstance, brings loss and the inevitable grief that follows. It can be a time of immense pain and overwhelming emotions. But it doesn’t have to be ‘The End’. There is hope for a new life; to heal and move forward in wholeness to live a life of purpose. To become successfully single again.

Much of the content on this website comes from the book ‘New Life in the Mourning – hope when the relationship ends’ and a 4 session course of the same name, however it continues to be developed and added to.

To read a letter from me ‘You are special and you are loved’ click here (it expresses why I am reaching out to your through this website, it contains Christian content)


The blogs are an expansion of these ideas to help you find healing and hope at the end of a relationship and are posted once a fortnight on the second and fourth Thursday of the month.

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I would love to hear from you regarding if the content of the websites are useful, any ideas for future items or resources that could assist others. You can join the conversation by leaving comments on a blog, filling in the Contact form or commenting on my ministry Facebook page Vicky Legge where each blog will be announced with a link.

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As a thank you for signing up you will receive the chapter Successfully Single from my New Life in the Mourning book.

Who’s behind it?

One Together is one of 3 websites (currently) that host my passion to provide hope and healing in many areas of life that stem from my lived experience of divorce, single parenting and living with a chronic illness (launching mid 2017) and my passion to equip ministry workers to promote abundant life and hope in others, practising self-care to last the distance. There are many cross links between the websites.

Hear some of my story in the welcome video (I have been a single parent for 1 1/2 decades) and click here for information about my qualifications and professional experience